HELP ME PLZZZZ.....this is my first time?

When you meet him for the first time try to do it someplace where you feel comfortable, like a friends house where there are other people you know, then you won't feel so pressured to think of something to say or worry about awkward silences. And you can act the way you normally do around friends. Just find a chair or comfy spot on the couch and lean back and join in the conversation.